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Posted by Hunter [24.1.13.62 - c83540-b.aurora1.co.home.com] on 07 June 2001 at 12.55.02:

In Reply to: Such treatment needs to be earned, not demanded, I think.... posted by Hunter on 07 June 2001 at 12.04.35:

Thinking about it, I don't see how you can bitch about your treatment as compared to mine. I never quite understood that. You were always telling me I 'deserved better' and that he should 'treat me better'. And you never quite made it clear what was wrong with the way he was treating me.

And I don't see how you can bitch about being allowed to live in this house, and having someone cosign for a fully loaded truck for you, just so you could drive it around and not pay for it, and having someone let you use his computer whenever you damned well pleased. You were wandering around calling Charon your husband there for a while; you once told me that he proposed to you. And yet you're complaining that you weren't worshiped enough now?

Wait, instead of going on...it just occurred to me....

Let's look at something here:

Diagnostic Criteria for 301.81 Narcissistic Personality Disorder

A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behaviour), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, , beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:


  1. has a grandiose sence of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognised as superior without commensurate achievements)
  2. is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love.
  3. believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high status people (or institutions).
  4. requires excessive admiration
  5. has a sense of entitlement, id est, unreasonable expectations of especially favourable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations.
  6. is interpersonally exploitative, id est, takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends.
  7. lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognise or identify with the feelings and needs of others.
  8. is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her.
  9. shows arrogant, haughty behaviours or attitudes.

I could type the rest of the description out, but I believe that's enough. And I hope I've made it quite clear....

So, now that we seem to have identified the problem, perhaps you might want to seek help?

~Hunter

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